How to know if he’s a scammer

If your gut is telling you something feels off, it’s worth paying attention. Romance scammers are skilled at pretending to be charming, sincere, and trustworthy — but their patterns reveal the truth.


🚩 Warning Signs He Might Be a Scammer

  1. Moves Too Fast Emotionally
    He says you’re his soulmate within days, claims he’s never felt this way before, and pressures you into quick commitment.
  2. Avoids Video or Real-Life Meetups
    He makes excuses about bad internet, broken cameras, or being “deployed” so he never has to show his real face.
  3. Requests Money or Help With Transfers
    This is the biggest red flag. Whether it’s a medical emergency, stuck at the airport, or needing crypto, it’s always a lie.
  4. Has an Unrealistic or Vague Backstory
    He might say he’s a contractor working overseas or a wealthy businessman, but the details don’t add up or are full of holes.
  5. Avoids Direct Questions
    When you ask simple personal questions, his answers are evasive, generic, or inconsistent.
  6. Pushes You to Leave the App
    He insists on switching to WhatsApp, Telegram, or email — places where he can operate with less oversight.
  7. Uses Stock or Stolen Photos
    His photos look too professional or model-like. A reverse image search often shows they belong to someone else.
  8. Guilt Trips or Love Bombs You
    He might accuse you of not trusting him, make you feel bad for setting boundaries, or smother you with affection to gain control.

✅ How to Verify the Truth

  • Use reverse image search on profile photos
  • Ask for a live video call early
  • Never send money or gift cards
  • Check if their social media presence feels real and consistent

If you see several of these red flags, it’s time to block and report the profile. Don’t wait until it becomes emotional or financial damage.


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